Immaturity in guys

I know one or two guys who think that they are so mature and yet they act the opposite way. They always think that they are such a big guy who always do think for others and always the considerate one, while in fact, they might not ask for something in return now, but they make the whole lot of fuss about what they have done for others and asking for something back. Maybe yeah, few times they are nice and considerate but most of the time they are childish, very selfish and never consider about how others might feel.

There are few signs of guys being immature, most of them are very obvious about how childish they are. Even when I browse through the net, it says the same thing like what I go through, therefore it's not me who is being to paranoid, overjealous, who gets pissed easily, and super sensitive, but the problem is from those childish people who are too blind to realise problems within themselves. Some of the signs are:

1. Blame game
This is for those who never realise their doings and instead blame it on others. Whatever others do is wrong and they are right. Every single thing is always others fault without reflecting on what they do. If they are mature enough, they should be able to use their brain to think of what happen, the cause on effect in their actions and admit it. Some realise they do mistake but they just can't admit that they are wrong therefore they blame it on others.

2. Selfishness
Everything is about me, me, me and me. This is the type of mindset they have. They are not considerate, they never think of others. What I do is right and for my good, go to hell with others. It's not to say that it's a bad thing, but there is a limit of being selfish as well. Some people can take your selfishness and al your will, but some don't, some even hate it. Try to put yourself on other's shoes where they just push push push everything to you.

3. Manipulate condition
What it means here is when they know that people spot their wrong doings and confront them, instead of admitting, they use other reasons that make others feel bad just to feel safe and throw the blame on others. This happens all the time if you know some immature people. They just don't want to be wrong, always want to be right even if they are at the wrong side. It's easy, what they do is twist the truth or play the mind game to make you feel bad and forgive their doings, while in fact, we do nothing at all. Another common thing that they do to manipulate condition is trying to shift the conversation to other things hoping that we don't talk about their mistake anymore.

4. Have fun
All this people love to do is just to have fun. They never think of their future. They only think of today, or maybe tomorrow and that's it. They go out with friends whenever they wish, do whatever they want. And if you dare to say no to their fun, you will be having hell time with them, and things surely go back to #1, the blame game. They just want to hang out and do fun things with a bunch of people who they call as friends without considering and thinking if these friends are genuine. Maybe they forget that fun friends are just for fun, nothing else, they won' even bother if you die the next day.

5. Get mad easily
Whatever others do is wrong to them. Even for a little tiny thing, they get angry and furious. Everything seem to be wrong to them. They even get angry for the right thing if it's not like how they want it to be. When everything goes as they how want it to be then only things are right for them, if not everything seem to be negative and cause their temper to boil.

6. Can't stick to commitment
This is the most common sign that you can find in immature guys. This happens because they can't make up their mind on what they want, sometimes they want everything then the next second they don't want it anymore. They can't make up their mind and stick to it. They follow the flow or other influence's easily. They can't even stick to their own words, and most of the time when being confronted, they find excuses. They refuse to the commitment if they know that they can't stick to it or mainly because of their selfishness. As I said earlier, whatever they do or anything that happen, all must be like how they want it to be, their way, or it's a no no.