Whenever you are there all the time for someone, they tend to take you for granted thinking that no matter what happen, we are always there for them. But do they ever realise how tiring it is to be the person being taken for granted? What if we change place and we take them for granted, do you think they will stay still for you in any condition and when you treat them badly?
Some people don't realise what they do but some actually do but choose to ignore and continue with what they do. I sometimes wonder if they ever think that the person might leave one day and never come back and when they regret things will be too late, as the saying that regret only come later when people lose something.
Same comes to love and feelings. What will you do if your other half just do whatever that make them happy without considering about how you feel about it? Will you choose to stay or go? Even if you choose to stay, to what extend you can tolerate their behaviour? How much pain can you endure? How long do you plan to stay? First chance, second chance, third chance, how many chances can you give for them to change and be better?
Some people are very unappreciative to what they have and people around them. It's good enough that some still choose to stay after being treated very badly. Some people choose to stay because they believe that as time goes their partner will slowly change back like before. But what if the person never change at all after the long period of waiting? It's tiring isn't it? Especially when it comes to the person who you are willing to do everything for but they never appreciate all that you do for them.
Always remember, treat people right and people will do the same to you. What goes around comes around. Don't regret things when it is already too late.
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