Friendly vs Flirty

What is friendly? And what is flirty?

There are a lot of different views and thoughts to this. Noone can really give proper explanation regarding these two matters. There is a very thin line between being friendly and being flirty. Even if you type on Google, there is no exact answers about this.

Here are some of the different views:
One person may say that flirting is harmless as long no one is hurt by it.  One person may say that it is not good to flirt under no circumstance because it can lead to the wrong things if you are not expecting anything out of it. 

there is a HUGE difference between flirting and being nice although many people couldnt tell.
- flirting is more like giving/showing you the green light that there could be something more than friendship between us, if you make the right move.
- being nice is simply making sure that you are comfortable (at ease) around that person, while NEVER crossing the important friendly line!

Flirting is suggestive. Being nice is being nice with no undertones.
Flirting seeks indulgence. Being nice at worst seeks appreciation.
Flirting craves excitement. U don't have to be excited about being nice.
Flirting is complusive, impulsive & excessive. It could also become obsessive. Being nice is none of this.

Flirting is self seeking. U want to feel good about what effect U can see U are having on the other person while doing those things U are doing. Lets not lie to ourselves, we all flirt sometime like animals do mating rituals; but even animals choose who they mate with & they have flirting/mating seasons. For those who say, ''I'm not flirting. I'm only being nice/polite,'' when it's clear to others that they are flirting, you're in denial. Addictions are of different forms. No be only alcohol dey high person.

And I think this is the best, the trick is never to assume that just because a person is being nice to you means they want you.